conversation about relationship

Im chatting to a friend. We are talking about relationships. She is telling me about how when she was a teenager she and her friends used to share boys around their little group of girls, one day he'll be with this friend, the next with this other friend. She also tells me about how their are two basic energies to a sexual relationship...

"yielding, and driving... different constitutions in people have different sex needs, and how these two energies typically play out in sex. People with strong heat and passion typically take the driving elements to be what satisfies them,... people with more temperate and passive qualities take the contrary but both can often actually get their satisfaction from taking the opposite  role, contrary to what their natural inclination may be. People can use both yielding and driving within them selves, but if both people are driving or both people are yielding, the energies don't match up for a satisfying experience."

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I am having a bath. In the hall way. For some reason I have put the bath in the middle of the hall. No one is in. but then everyone gets back. I have to get out, its really cold, I go outside with no clothes on and its frosty and icy.

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 I have a new mbira, it has many many more keys...